There’s a lot
of emotion on tv these days where everyone is on a journey and opening up to
millions of strangers about their issues in all sort of situations. It can
happen in a big tent where people are baking, a colourful studio where people
are dancing or even on a canal. Such openness will be seen as the signature of
this decade’s television as people feel more comfortable talking about pretty
much anything in front of the cameras. Great
Canal Journeys is the one which can never really have a happy ending with a
trophy holding winner. It’s about growing old, about struggling to do things
you couldn’t do before and about how true love is not just the province of the
young. You’d expect two actors in this situation to be melodramatic about it in
that way some actors have of being more stagey off stage than on. Timothy West
and Prunella Scales though are honest and straight forward about their
situation and the result is that it makes a programme whose premise may seem dull so packed full
of life.
The series
launched in 2014 and sees the couple who’ve been married for over 50 years
traversing the canals of Britain- and later beyond- at a stately 4mph while
they encounter interesting people and places along the way. They don’t do this
in the way some programmes give celebrities a challenge, they’ve been messing
about on the waterways for decades. Unfortunately what Tim describes as a “a
slight condition” in the introduction is
Prue’s encroaching dementia and it is the context in which the whole thing is
framed.
Dementia
unfolds differently and at varying speeds for every person who has it as
whatever common traits the illness has are filtered through that person’s past,
personality and surroundings. It can rob real memories or it can change them or
it can concoct new false ones, it can change behaviour or opinions or character
in all sorts of ways. It’s almost impossible to define except for its
unstoppable momentum. What Great Canal
Journeys shows is the value of what time you have left. Neither you nor
relatives or friends knows how long you have before things become near
impossible but when she is on the canals, Prue's condition improves with the
stimulus of
memories and surroundings. She delights in these to the point where you
would never know she was anything other than ageing rather than something more
serious.
What makes it
harder to watch for me is seeing how Tim deals with all of this. Sadly I know
only too well that while the person affected can have varying clarity over
their situation the ones around them remember it all. For them each
deterioration is noticed, each mis-step happens in the context of a wider
perspective, what are moments for the sufferer are part of a much longer experience for those watching and trying to help. He talks occasionally about it all with understatement and restraint, an actor
trying to hide emotions rather than display them.
I personally
dislike the personification of illness- like that advert which paints cancer as
a sentient being that “doesn’t care” – so hesitate to talk of dementia as
something that `steals` as if it is a deliberate monster. Rather I prefer the
idea that people live with dementia as you might with short sightedness or an
allergy. I know its more serious than that and perhaps giving these things a
character does help some people.
Over the years
we’ve seen this devoted couple undertake increasingly ambitious voyages which
would task anyone in their 80s - maybe they should have started with the likes
of Venice and India rather than doing them only in the last couple of years.
Now though, in an episode broadcast yesterday, we have reached what seems to be
the end with broad hints that though they may continue to use the canals, the
series is something that is now beyond even their admirable capabilities. And
for the first time we saw Tim seeming like his health was on the wane too as he
talks of how even conversations with his wife are more difficult now. Yet it ends with them surrounded by their family having a picnic.
This is not
really a sad programme at all though because they won’t let it be. It is a quiet triumph, a true stand against
the dying of the light as I've ever seen. You are rooting for them every time, loving
how they carry on in that quiet everyday manner despite being a step away from
heartbreak. Simply they are an inspiration.
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